Early Careers: Balance Due
Dawn L. Riddle
Institute of Human Performance,
Decision-Making & Cybernetics
Lori L. Foster
East Carolina University
Did you ever read Victor Hugos epic novel Les
Misrables? The title means the wretched ones, the outcasts, those whose
lives are misery. Based on the premise that any man can rise above terrible
circumstances to reach excellence, the novel tells the tale of a victim of
poverty and his struggles with good and evil. What does this have to do with
your early career? Hopefully nothing apart from the fact that the book
happens to be a personal favorite of this Early Career columns
featured psychologist, Dr. Kevin Murphy. In typical fashion, this
issues first segment, titled The Industrial-Organizational Psychologist, profiles
the professional and personal aspects of a well-known individual. This portion
of the column represents our attempt to (a) catch a glimpse of the person behind
the familiar name, and (b) capture and share various nuances of a
successful career with our EC audience. In addition to appeasing an
insatiable curiosity, we hope the segment affords early career readers the
opportunity learn and adopt some of the strategies that have worked well for a
successful role model.
The columns second segment, Career Gear, explores a topic chosen by
our featured psychologist. This discussion is designed to arm you, our early
career cohorts, with information to facilitate your sanity as well as your
success. Thus, if Hugos novel and your early career share an intimate
connection that transcends Dr. Murphys interest in the book, read on! This
issues Career Gear segment is designed to help you rise above the
miserable forces that obstruct work-life-family balance during the beginning
of a career.
The Industrial-Organizational Psychologist
Youve seen his name plastered all over the journals. Perhaps you even
heard his voice during the SIOP 98 presidential address, titled In Search
of Success: Everyones Criterion Problem. Indeed, this issues featured
psychologist, Dr. Kevin Murphy, embodies the success to which many aspire. Prior
to conducting our interview with him, we asked Dr. Murphy to e-mail his vita to
us. Dont let this abbreviated version fool you; the guys been busy!
Dr. Kevin R. Murphy: The Professional
Educational background. PhD, Pennsylvania State University, 1979;
MS, Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, 1976; BA, Siena College, 1974.
Academic positions and visiting appointments. Dr. Murphys
academic career reveals an eventful progression. He is currently a professor in
the Department of Psychology at Penn Statea position he has held since August
2000. Prior to Penn State, he spent 16 years at Colorado State University as a
professor (19882000), associate professor (19861988), and assistant
professor (19841986). In addition, he has held academic positions at New York
University (19811984) and Rice University (19791981). Dr. Murphy has
further busied himself with visiting appointments at the University of
Stockholm, the University of California at Berkeley, the Navy Personnel Research
and Development Center in San Diego, and the Department of Personnel and
Employment Relations at the University of Limerick, Ireland.
Publications and editorial activities. Dr.
Murphys vita lists over 70 scholarly manuscripts, which primarily center on
performance appraisal, selection, psychometrics/statistics, and alcohol/drug
education issues. One of his articles isnt even in English (it looks French).
How cool! But thats only the beginning. Hes written oodles of (herein
operationally defined as more than 30) books and chapters, and hes
delivered invited talks and conference presentations galore.
Now, an unenlightened person might assume that all of this publication and
presentation activity has precluded extensive editorial service, but we who
spent weeks lugging his hefty vita around know better! Dr. Murphy is currently
the editor of the Journal of Applied Psychology, and he has served (or is
currently serving) as a member of the boards of various other journals,
including Human Performance, Personnel Psychology, International Journal of
Selection and Assessment, Journal of Vocational Behavior, Human Resource
Management Review, Journal of Industrial Psychology, and International
Journal of Management Reviews. Phew! In addition, he has worked as an ad hoc
reviewer for scores of other journals.
Association activities. Dr. Murphy is a Fellow of the APA, as
well as the Division on Evaluation, Measurement and Statistics (Division 5, APA).
He is a Fellow and former president of SIOP and a Charter Fellow of the APS. He
currently serves on the APAs Council of Editors, and he is one of SIOPs
representatives to the APA Council.
Kaz Murphy, The Guy
Having scrutinized his vita in sufficient detail, we decided it was time
get to know the REAL Kevin Murphy. We began by sending him an e-mail message to
coordinate a time for a teleconferencewe proposed a Tuesday at 4:30 p.m.
Kevins reply went something like this, Tuesday will work, but would it be
possible to do the call just a bit earlier? I need to leave at 4:40 to pick up
the kids. My schedule is otherwise pretty flexible that day. Hmmm, we
thought, how does the owner of that vita find time for kids?
We hoped the answer to this question would become clear once we got him on the
phone. Heres how the interview went:
What do you do to relieve stress? Cook! Kevin replied. He
began cooking for survival purposes (as a bachelor in graduate school), and from
there his culinary interests flourished. Hardly a bachelor now, Kevin does most
of the cooking in his family, which includes 10-year-old daughter Kathleen,
his 7-year-old son Michael, and his wife Jan Cleveland (who, as many of
you know, is also a successful I-O psychologist at Penn State). He doesnt
have any specialty dishes per se, but he likes to bake bread when hes feeling
ambitious.
What do you do during your time off? During his time off, Kevin
enjoys spending time with his family. The biggest single thing I do when
Im not working, he reveals, is stuff with the kids. Both Kathleen
and Michael play soccer, and Kevin is an assistant coach for the team. When
hes not busy coaching soccer, he loves to travel. As a glimpse at the
sabbatical positions on his vita suggests, Kevins career has provided the
opportunity to spend many a nonwork hour touring foreign lands. At the time of
this interview, he and the family had just returned from trips to Ireland and
Sweden, where they spent time visiting with friends and former neighbors.
Finally, Kevin likes to read during his down time. He is currently immersed in
one of Page Smiths historical accounts of the United States, titled America
Enters the world: A peoples history of the Progressive Era and World War I. What
will happen when he finishes this 1,000-plus page volume? According to Kevin,
hell probably mosey over to the library, or hop on Amazon.com, in search of
another good history book.
But, if you were stranded on a desert island and allowed ONE piece of
reading material, what would it be? Even as misery is said to love
company, island isolation appears drawn to misery... at least in Kevins case.
Given his druthers, a marooned Kevin is likely to be found propped beneath a
coconut tree, reading Les Misrables. Just before publishing Les Misrables
in 1862, the novels author, Victor Hugo, is reported to have said, This is
a leviathan I am about to ship out to sea. Though hardly a message in a
bottle, this lengthy work ...is a great old novel, Kevin contends.
Ive probably read it five times. He is fond of both the plot and the
writing, and he considers it Hugos best work.
Do you have a nickname? If so, how did you get it? When Kevin
was in high school, he worked in a hospital kitchen. His supervisor was a man
with a knack for unintentionally mispronouncing everyones name.
Kevins name got mangled in a manner that made it sound something like Kaz.
The mispronunciation caught on, and to this day, lots of people back home in
Albany still call him Kaz.
What is your favorite beverage? Im a coffee hound,
confesses Kevin, who undoubtedly has a Mr. Coffee machine in his new office by
now. As our readers are surely aware, there are two kinds of coffee drinkers in
this world. There are the Gee, a cup of coffee sure would be nice folks,
and then there are the Dont speak to me until Ive consumed at least two
cups of java so thick and black it could put hair on your puny little chest
crowd. We knew our faithful readers would want to know which camp Kevin pitches
his tent in, so we put him to the test by following up with a few key questions.
How often do you drink it? we asked. All throughout the day, replied
Kevin. What kind? we challenged. Very thick, and very dark, he
countered. (Extra dark French roast is his fav.) Beans or pre-ground? we
queried. Well, that all depends, Kevin answered cautiously. He usually
sticks to pre-ground but sometimes grinds his own, much to the chagrin of his
two Siamese cats. They go crazy every time they hear the bean grinder, he
explained. What could we say? Hes obviously the kind of guy who could drink a
double espresso without ever flinching. As 2 to 3 latt-per-day consumers, we
were duly impressed!
Do you have a routine that you like to follow? In a word,
no. (In all likelihood, those of you with kids accurately anticipated his
answer to this question.) Kevin suggests that between his teaching and editorial
duties, its difficult to predict the workload from day to day, especially
when it comes to the journal. Today, seven new manuscripts came in the mail.
Other days, none arrive. Despite the sporadic nature of incoming journal
submissions, Kevin constructs an approximate schedule at the beginning of each
semester. This agenda always includes daily time for research or writing. Why?
According to Kevin, books, chapters, and large-scale projects, which require you
to stick with it, are best accomplished when tackled on a daily basis.
Although he likes to make his writing blocks as large as possible, many days
afford only a single hour, after the kids have gone to bed.
Another constant, of course, is teaching. Kevin teaches one or two classes
per semester, depending on his outside responsibilities. Tonight, Im
giving a graduate seminar on personnel selection, he revealed. Having taken
this seminar when working on his PhD at Penn State in the 1970s, hes now
experiencing a little deja vu. Im pretty sure Im giving the seminar in
the same classroom, at the same time (as when I took it). Reinforcing that
old familiar feeling, Kevins former advisor, Jim Farr, has an
office just down the hall. It would be hard coming back a year or two out (of
graduate school), Kevin muses, but at this point in the career its been
a nice experience.
What factor(s) contributed significantly to your success, and what
factor(s) might be critical to the success of others, in general?
Kevins personal definition of success involves doing what you
like, liking what you do, and being able to do it in a way that doesnt make
the rest of your family crazy. Notice that this definition extends beyond a
career. You can get too concentrated on work, Kevin warns. I like it
and Im good at it, but in the grand scheme of things, its not the only
(component of success), and its not close to being the most important. Many
people in our field have a myopic view of work. You have to keep the where
does it fit with the other things I do? question in mind, as you proceed
through your career. In short, vita success (as Kevin calls it) is a
deficient measure of a much larger criterion.
Kevin attributes much of his career success to a genuine interest in
interrelated topics, luck, and good colleagues. Academic success involves
finding areas that go together, he contends. In grad school, I was
interested in lots of topics that didnt go well togetherpsychometrics,
decision making, and personnel psychology. I found performance appraisal
research as a way to unite those areas. Kevin adds that his vita success also
stems from lucky timing, as he began pursuing rating accuracy when it was in
vogue. Much of my early work was published because it was a hot topic, he
insists. Lastly, good colleagues have played a key role in helping him find ways
of applying his interests to his work.
The preceding factors help build a vita, but the larger life success occurs
when one finds the kind of job that allows you to have experience with
family. That makes all the difference. Kevin says he feels lucky to be
married to another I-O psychologist, who understands his professional efforts
and does work that he values. This shared understanding not only facilitates a
mutual appreciation, it also allows Jan and him to help each other,
professionally. After pausing thoughtfully (or stopping to take a big swig of
coffee, were not sure which), Kevin concludes his response by suggesting that
a career where you can have balance between work and rest of life is
priceless. With this, he adds Ladies, I can give you about 5 more minutes,
then I have to go pick up the kids.
Career Gear
So, are you still wondering what really drives success? Well, if
you didnt derive an answer from Dr. Murphys 1998 SIOP presidential
address, and you didnt draw conclusions from the TIP column he
regularly authored during his presidential tenure (the photo accompanying his
column depicted Dr. Murphy flanked by his two kids), and if you still didnt
get it from The I-O Psychologist segment above, well spell it out for
you: B-A-L-A-N-C-E. Thats the message youll hear woven through Dr.
Murphys words and modeled in his manner.
In concert with his own definition of and quest for success, Dr. Murphy
suggested we use our Career Gear segment to remind people that although
its easy to get caught up in the quest for a well-carved niche and an
established professional reputation, the importance of finding a healthy balance
between home and office life cannot be overstated. Having said that, we state
the obvious: this issues Career Gear segment focuses on work-family
balance. In preparation for this segment, we of course hit the literature, but
we also asked various early-to-mid-career types to share the challenges and
successes theyve encountered aboard the home-office balance beam1.
The remainder of this column summarizes our survey responses, which often echo
what is found in the literature.
1 We want to extend a special thank you to our Career Gear contributors who shared their thoughts with us regarding this issues topic: Suzy Fox, Martin Factor, Kevin Cook, Shelly Freeman and four contributors who preferred to remain anonymous. If you would like the opportunity to add your 2 to future Career Gear segments, let us know, and well be sure to put you on our e-mail list!
Barriers to WorkFamily Balance
According to our respondents, the quest for workfamily equilibrium
involves a variety of trials, which originate in both the workplace and the
home.
On the job. Two major barriers stem from the workplace: time
and value. Our respondents indicated that the sheer volume of an I-O
psychologists work can eat time and suppress balance. On top of that, the
workload is often unpredictable, variable, or cyclical, which challenges even
the most adept time manager. Spontaneous and scheduled meetings, teleconferences
and travel, collaboration with colleagues, and consultation with clients can run
longer than the allotted time and spill over into evenings and weekends.
Furthermore, lots of new professionals work among colleagues who neither
support nor value the balanced lifestyle. Even when an organization offers HR
policies and programs encouraging workfamily balance, theres no guarantee
that the true work culture has gotten with the program. Our respondents
echoed this sentiment repeatedly, suggesting that in many organizations, people
who are unable to say no (i.e., those who let work overrun home and
personal needs) are seen as valuable contributors, and they are promoted,
recognized, and reinforced with far greater frequency than those who choose to
have a life outside of the office. As Dr. Murphy pointed out, pursuing a
balanced life may mean that you have to take a hit in terms of other career
variables.
At home. Just as colleagues dont always value your home
life, home isnt forever impressed by your professional responsibilities. It
seems that if you dare to engage in both a career and a life, you will likely
adopt some nontraditional work hours to compensate for the nontraditional family
hours you keep. As indicated by Dr. Murphy during our interview, one of the
things that can cause workfamily conflict is when a person lacks an
appreciation for what his or her partner is doing. Our respondents
added that the when he or she is doing it can also be problematic.
Moreover, having disparate workfamily perspectives can compound the conflict,
especially when only one partner is consistently expected to compromise work
responsibilities in order to meet family obligations.
One final challenge encountered at home are the puppy dog eyes and pouty
lips... yesthe children who dont understand when you have to go to the
office on Saturday. Its difficult for them to appreciate the fact that you
are going to work in order to catch up on what you missed last Thursday when
those puppy dog eyes and pouty lips were accompanied by feverish cheeks, a runny
nose, and a trip to the pediatrician!
Keys to WorkFamily Balance
Have you ever been to a workshop where you got inundated with tons of
great, usable dataso much information that you left feeling overwhelmed and
sure that you couldnt possibly implement but a few key points? Thats
pretty much how we felt when we asked our respondents to describe the ways they
maintain that very fragile but critical balance between their personal and
professional lives. In general, we learned that workfamily balance can be
facilitated by: (a) adopting specific philosophies to live by, (b)
communicating your values and expectations at home and in the workplace, (c)
actively working to achieve and maintain that balance, and (d) attempting to put
yourself in a family-friendly environment. The following paragraphs address
these general rules in some detail, in hopes that you will find at least one
take home message, which suits your own work-family world.
Establish a balanced philosophy toward life. Sometimes
making one small change, adopting one hard and fast rule, can make all the
difference in the world, explained one respondent. A healthy balance
typically requires a keen awareness of your priorities. If you choose to make
family time a priority, then do whatever it takes to make family time happen.
Some of our respondents make it happen by consciously seeking flexible
career paths and organizations. Others rearrange their schedules, moving
activities normally completed in the evening (e.g., exercising, reading the
newspaper from cover to cover, and writing out the bills) to the wee hours of
the morning. Still others actively engage their work brain at the office
and their family brain at home, in order to give everyone their fair
share.
Communicate with your family members and your colleagues. It is
essential to communicate your aspirations toward balance to colleagues and
family members alike. One respondent wrote, Love what you do, both at work
and at home, and constantly communicate that to your child(ren) and to your
colleagues. Make it clear to your kids(s) that they are not a burden,
that you love playing with them or running them to hockey, soccer, religious
school, and so forth. But that you also love your work and that it makes you
happy to be doing both.
Similarly, in the workplace it is important to establish your boundaries and
communicate your expectations. As Dr. Murphy explained, This is a lot like
what you do in a consulting project. Set the norms and constraints up front.
Laying out schedules and expectations is important and do-able. Make a contract
between you and whomever youre working with. This way, your family
obligations dont create problems downstream. Moreover, youre not perceived
as not pulling your weight when you have to leave a meeting to attend to
matters at home. The conclusion of our interview with Dr. Murphy provides a
perfect example. Because he communicated his childcare obligations up front, we
werent the least bit surprised by his 5-minute warning.
Make a conscious effort. Clearly, work-family balance doesnt
just happen, and work isnt always the neglected side of the equation.
Indeed, weve heard relatively few complaints to the tune of, Ive got
all the family time I need, I just cant seem to get enough time at the
office. Below are some methods used by our respondents to consciously
facilitate balance between work and family.
- Let children pick an outside activity and support that activity. My
5-year-old daughter enjoys gymnastics, one respondent offered as an
example, so we attend late afternoon sessions twice a week.
- Dont bring work home over the weekend.
- Commit to spending an hour per week in your childs classroom, or
performing some function at your childs school. Many organizations have
formal programs offering paid release time to tutor or volunteer in schools
during working hours.
- Those of you with some degree of control over your schedule might consider
following Murphys Law (no, not the one about things going wrong, we mean
Kevin Murphys law). Dont schedule meetings after a certain time of
day. This way, you minimize the chances of getting caught up by a late
running meeting, and you can be free to attend to the family.
- Coach a youth sports activity, or lead a Girl Scout or Boy Scout troop.
- Schedule it, and as Shelly Zedeck offered in the April 2000 issue
of Early Careers, subscribe to it! Treat your spouse or your family
to season tickets for athletic events, performing arts theaters, or local
theme parks.
- Be home to make dinner for your spouse at least once per week.
- Celebrate family members accomplishments or milestoneseven the small
ones, such as completed science projects, report cards, and the ability to
stay on green all week. (For those of you without kids, the latter
accomplishment refers to a behavior modification system implemented by many
school systems nationwide.)
- Have regular family meetings.
- Identify excellent childcare providers so that you can have peace of mind
while at work.
- Attend corporate events that include the family.
Put yourself in a family-friendly environment. Importantly,
philosophies, communication, and conscious efforts seem to work a whole lot
better in professional environments that support balanced lifestyles (Did
somebody say moderator?). Finding a family-friendly context in which
to work makes a huge difference, says Dr. Murphy, who spent approximately 5
years with a crib in his office. There are some places where people wont
respond well to kids in offices and meetings. Finding a job where such
behavior is not only acceptable, but where colleagues understand the impact
kids will have on life makes all the difference in the world.
So, how do you find such a place? Well, you can start by doing your home-work
(You saw that one coming, didnt you?). Several magazines administer extensive
surveys to organizational employers and/or employees, and these survey data are
used to identify and rank the best companies to work for. For the past 15
years, Working Mother magazine has published a list of the 100 Best
Companies for Working Mothers. Companies are rated according to compensation,
opportunities for women to advance, child care benefits (on-site child care,
back-up care, before- and after-school care, dependent-care fund, and pre-tax
set asides), flexible work schedules, paid maternity/paternity leave, and
work/life (manager pay tied to employee satisfaction, employee surveys, manager
training, work/life task force). Working Mothers current Top 10, along
with the number of years on the list in parentheses, includes Allstate Insurance
Company (10), Bank of America (formerly NationsBank) (2), Eli Lilly and Company
(6), Fannie Mae (7), IBM Corporation (15), Life Technologies, Inc. (5), Lincoln
Financial Group (14), Merrill Lynch & Co., Inc. (5), Novant Health, Inc.
(1), and Prudential (11).
In a similar vein, Fortune magazine ranks The 100 Best Companies to
Work for in America. Work-family issues are included among Fortunes criteria,
which also consider good benefits and a corporate culture of trust and respect
between management and employees. Fortunes Top 10 includes Container
Store, Southwest Airlines, CISCO Systems, TDIndustries, Synovus Financial, SAS
Institute, Edward Jones, Charles Schwab, Goldman Sachs, and MBNA.
Finally, an organization may have the right look (i.e., it may have family
friendly policies and programs), but when your lifes on the line, you just
gotta ask. When interviewing for jobs, suggested Dr. Murphy, ask point blank:
What is the culture? What are the norms? How are people going to react when I
bring kids to faculty meetings? The interviewers reaction to the question
itself can provide keen insights into the family-friendliness of the
organization. If asking the question is a problem, then you have a major
sign, says Dr. Murphy. Indicating that balance would have been impossible
when he lived and worked in New York during the early 1980s, he maintains that
he will no longer take a job in a place thats not kid-friendly. At Penn
State, its load up the Nintendo (presumably to keep the kids occupied) and
off to work!
Summary and Conclusion
In conclusion, it can be done! Look at Kevin Murphy, a dad first and
foremost, and an amazingly successful I-O psychologist to boot. According to our
contributors you can do it too, especially if you develop a balanced
philosophy toward life, communicate your philosophy and your expectations to
co-workers and family alike, and then concentrate on making it happen daily.
So whats on tap for April 2001? We thought youd never ask! The next
edition, which marks the passing of Early Careers first anniversary,
will be something of a Review/Preview issue. We will highlight the lessons
learned during the past year, and offer a glimpse of what is yet to come. Be
sure to join us. Until then, feel free to contact the Early Careers editors
with questions, kudos, and criticisms at: Dawn L.
Riddle (riddle@luna.cas.usf.edu)
and Lori L. Foster (FosterL@mail.ecu.edu).
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